i was thinking of thoughts to blog. love could be overrated. so i added a little spice to it. hope you'd like this. :)
SEX. LOVE.
keep an open mind--if you can't, then leave this page. :))
change is the only constant thing in the world. keep that in mind.
Love. is it merely a feeling? an emotion? romance? is it just that? is it enough to keep a relationship?
Sex. is it just the act? the pleasure? the "intimacy"? is it enough to keep a relationship?
how about love with sex? hmmm, you get to act on the feeling. get pleasure from emotions. be intimate with romance. would it keep a relationship? now you're talking!
if i were to ask someone for a choice between love and sex, LOVE would be it. But if i was to offer a third choice (BOTH) i am pretty sure the decision would be changed.
the reason why people would choose LOVE over SEX is because they know..that by choosing Love, they would still be able to enjoy SEX because it's PART of it. right?
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"If you love me, then let's do it." usually MEN say this line..right? well you are WRONG. let's not put the blame for losing virginity (for women) on men alone. because there are times, admit it, that they need not ask for it--we tend to offer ourselves to them for fear of losing them...for losing the relationship..because we LOVE them. right?
"If he loves me, he wouldn't take it away from me... i was just trying to test him.." well, my friend...testing him ain't gonna do you any good. when you put someone to test, be aware that a person could pass or FAIL. besides, what were you expecting? that he would refuse to make out with you when you lie there in front of him naked? that after you arouse that sexual urge, youd expect him to run away..? and if he tries to stop you, then he REALLY LOVES YOU??? CRAP!! it's like you bought him a very expensive car..gave him the keys..and you'd expect him to refuse such wonderful gift.
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Intimacy. Passion. Romance. it keeps the fire burning. it keeps the relationship glowing.
today's generation, we tend to explore and reason out.. A LOT! that's why we tend to be very curious, wild, aggressive and the like. we want to know things through experience. so we do what we want to do..or what we know we should do. a little caution though... coz we all are aware that curiosity could KILL.
part of the exploring would be debating whether or not sex should be or is part of a lasting relationship. of course, one would fear having given themselves to the other and find out that the relationship aint working.. the typical "i gave you ALL of me..and you leave me?" well, for the record, sex is not ALL of you.. so dont blame it on that.
well, i guess it's a matter of interpreting whether the deed is made out of love or lust. they say that it's LUST (no matter how intimate you feel) if it's outside marriage. but today's youth... hmm.. with the increasing cases of abortion and unwanted pregnancy, i can say that the youth are practicing it in a much much "immaturely mature" way of thinking. They LOVE a lot that they tend to be so liberal. i love you... i love you too...let's do it.. for love... for love.. for lust? no! for love..
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Girls say "I did it with him because we were making love..." this is a passport. for men to get into women territory "let's make love..." viola! but when a guy says "let's have sex.." SHOO! out you go! you get the picture here? a lot of change is happening nowadays. even the way to show how you love. should it change though? or is it better that some things stay... the same..as they should..like old times...
_____
did the change do you good? or the other? how do you change? for love...
or rather... how has LOVE change you..?
think. think. and think again. :)
life is too short to be spent unwisely. ;)
keep an open mind--if you can't, then leave this page. :))
change is the only constant thing in the world. keep that in mind.
Love. is it merely a feeling? an emotion? romance? is it just that? is it enough to keep a relationship?
Sex. is it just the act? the pleasure? the "intimacy"? is it enough to keep a relationship?
how about love with sex? hmmm, you get to act on the feeling. get pleasure from emotions. be intimate with romance. would it keep a relationship? now you're talking!
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| photos from google |
if i were to ask someone for a choice between love and sex, LOVE would be it. But if i was to offer a third choice (BOTH) i am pretty sure the decision would be changed.
the reason why people would choose LOVE over SEX is because they know..that by choosing Love, they would still be able to enjoy SEX because it's PART of it. right?
____
"If you love me, then let's do it." usually MEN say this line..right? well you are WRONG. let's not put the blame for losing virginity (for women) on men alone. because there are times, admit it, that they need not ask for it--we tend to offer ourselves to them for fear of losing them...for losing the relationship..because we LOVE them. right?
"If he loves me, he wouldn't take it away from me... i was just trying to test him.." well, my friend...testing him ain't gonna do you any good. when you put someone to test, be aware that a person could pass or FAIL. besides, what were you expecting? that he would refuse to make out with you when you lie there in front of him naked? that after you arouse that sexual urge, youd expect him to run away..? and if he tries to stop you, then he REALLY LOVES YOU??? CRAP!! it's like you bought him a very expensive car..gave him the keys..and you'd expect him to refuse such wonderful gift.
_____
Intimacy. Passion. Romance. it keeps the fire burning. it keeps the relationship glowing.
today's generation, we tend to explore and reason out.. A LOT! that's why we tend to be very curious, wild, aggressive and the like. we want to know things through experience. so we do what we want to do..or what we know we should do. a little caution though... coz we all are aware that curiosity could KILL.
part of the exploring would be debating whether or not sex should be or is part of a lasting relationship. of course, one would fear having given themselves to the other and find out that the relationship aint working.. the typical "i gave you ALL of me..and you leave me?" well, for the record, sex is not ALL of you.. so dont blame it on that.
 |
| photos from google |
_____
Girls say "I did it with him because we were making love..." this is a passport. for men to get into women territory "let's make love..." viola! but when a guy says "let's have sex.." SHOO! out you go! you get the picture here? a lot of change is happening nowadays. even the way to show how you love. should it change though? or is it better that some things stay... the same..as they should..like old times...
_____
did the change do you good? or the other? how do you change? for love...
or rather... how has LOVE change you..?
think. think. and think again. :)
life is too short to be spent unwisely. ;)
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